tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6782991936161882635.post149998945187362592..comments2023-05-18T21:04:18.695+10:00Comments on evil stepmonster: News from the step-worldEvil Stepmonsterhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00698559558607074249noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6782991936161882635.post-36357274365995387842009-09-05T23:07:05.083+10:002009-09-05T23:07:05.083+10:00I LOVE this post. Been there. Done that. My ste...I LOVE this post. Been there. Done that. My steps were 15 and 13 when we adopte dour Korean Prince. They had severely differentiated reactions. The 15 year old chose to be immersed in her own little world and didn't come to the house except for gift receiving occasions until she was 21. The 13 year old delved into her 'big sister' role and became more firmly entrenched in our household for a while. Now they are 29 and 32....both with children of their own. Amazingly they are relatively normal. LOLLynhttp://www.ryterrytes.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6782991936161882635.post-35031365241904857102009-04-17T00:20:00.000+10:002009-04-17T00:20:00.000+10:00I was living in a world of total ignorance. I hav...I was living in a world of total ignorance. I have 2, what I thought wonderful and loving stepchildren who I don't ever even call my step-children. They both call me Mom on their own and I love them both dearly. However, my delusions came to a screeching reality last night when I found this chat log from my 13-year old daughter on the home computer last night when I went to shut it down. She had left her chat on by accident.<br /><br />[18:24] daughter: why do i talk to you/ put up with you?<br />[18:25] guy friend: because<br />[18:25] guy friend: YOU LOVE ME<br />[18:25] guy friend: and everything about me<br />[18:25] guy friend: and you know it<br />[18:25] guy friend: yay me<br />[18:25] guy friend: im right<br />[18:25] daughter: possible you are what is creating the cage of darkness<br />[18:25] daughter: you and jenny <br />[18:25] guy friend: wut?<br />[18:25] daughter: no not jenny<br />[18:25] guy friend: ...<br />[18:25] daughter: other jenny<br />[18:25] guy friend: yay singularity<br />[18:25] guy friend: aww<br />[18:25] guy friend: no singularity<br />[18:26] guy friend: ?<br />[18:26] daughter: no <br />[18:26] guy friend: ...<br />[18:26] daughter: no singularity <br />[18:26] guy friend: =(<br />[18:26] daughter: Jenny (step monster) creates most of the cage of darkness<br />[18:26] daughter: you fill up the cracks <br />[18:26] guy friend: ok<br />[18:26] guy friend: can i be the demon outside the cage<br />[18:27] guy friend: prohibiting and form of escaping<br />[18:27] guy friend: ?<br />[18:27] guy friend: any*<br />[18:27] daughter: no. that's the future fetus's job <br />[18:27] guy friend: ..?<br />[18:27] daughter: there is a fetus <br />[18:27] daughter: which i already hate<br />[18:27] guy friend: ..?<br />[18:27] guy friend: ?<br />[18:27] guy friend: ?<br />[18:27] daughter: step monster is prego again <br />[18:27] daughter: whore. <br />[18:27] guy friend: lolwow<br />[18:27] daughter: 13 year age difference<br />[18:28] daughter: and it has a stupid name@ <br />[18:28] daughter: *! <br />[18:28] guy friend: wow<br />[18:28] daughter: so yes <br />[18:28] daughter: that is the demon <br />[18:28] daughter: the fetus<br /><br />I'm so crushed.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6782991936161882635.post-16715671316625111432009-04-01T10:26:00.000+11:002009-04-01T10:26:00.000+11:00Louise, it is I, arsehole!When your baby comes - i...Louise, it is I, arsehole!<BR/><BR/>When your baby comes - it will change EVERYTHING. <BR/><BR/>But, in a wonderful, amazing way. I promise. Yes it will be hard, and I can totally see why you would be worried .... but the INSTANT Rosie holds your baby in her arms, she will know there is nothing to be frightened about. The baby will take nothing from her - only fill her heart with love.<BR/><BR/>At the moment, your baby is thought about as some "thing" ..... but once those step kids of yours sees its little button nose, watch it coo ... OMG they will all fall in love. (Sorry for saying "it").<BR/><BR/>Love and hugs to you ..... and sleep, mate. Sleep as much as you can. Because, you know, BABIES DON'T.<BR/><BR/>MWAH!!!!<BR/><BR/>xoxoxoxoxoxoxEden Rileyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11937511046069347576noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6782991936161882635.post-12499490507256852932009-03-31T05:11:00.000+11:002009-03-31T05:11:00.000+11:00"presents":)"presents"<BR/>:)Lisahttp://www.infertileground.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6782991936161882635.post-55372957414395612152009-03-31T05:10:00.000+11:002009-03-31T05:10:00.000+11:00The whole situation sounds stressful and certainly...The whole situation sounds stressful and certainly present several causes for concern. First in terms of time sensitivity, I do hope the kids are safe in the ex's home! Is violence of some kind really happening there? Hope you all can sort out whatever needs sorting.<BR/><BR/>I hope, too, that you will be able to maintain actual homeowner privileges (or primary family status, or whatever seems like a good term!) once the baby comes. Your house, your baby, your new nuclear family, your life . . . the older kids are of course important, but the baby is coming and you deserve your proper consideration. I'm sure your DH will support that!Lisahttp://www.infertileground.comnoreply@blogger.com